let’s skip the
small talk
I’m LJ, and I see people differently.
I’m a licensed social worker, certified EFT practitioner, deep feeler, and total straight shooter…with a very healthy dose of sarcasm.
I help high-performing athletes break out of the mental loops that lead to overthinking, inconsistency, and burnout, so they can compete, recover, and lead from a place of confidence and clarity.
My expertise is in the one part of performance that often gets ignored but impacts everything: the subconscious. That’s where your pressure responses, belief systems, and stuck patterns live—and that’s what we work with.
I didn’t create Mind by LJ because I’ve played at the highest level. I created it because I understand how the brain and nervous system work under pressure. And my method of using EFT reprograms them at both a mental and physical level. The result? Athletes don’t just have new beliefs. They can actually trust those beliefs in the moments that matter the most.
I’m not here to coach your mechanics or fix your form. I’m here to help you shift what’s happening beneath the surface so your full potential can actually show up on game day.
I know what it’s like to look good on paper but feel stuck inside your own head. I’ve had to rebuild my confidence, rework the stories I believed, and stop letting old habits run my life.
Now, I help athletes destined for greatness do the same: With science-backed tools, real conversations, and zero fluff. At this level, more grit isn’t the answer.
Deeper work is.
And in case you’re wondering…I was skeptical about EFT too, until I saw the research and experienced it myself. Now I use it every day.
When I’m not coaching, you can find me planning spontaneous travel, making core memories with my nieces and nephews, or deep in a podcast/book as the personal development junkie I am. Layla, my rescue pup and emotional support potato, runs the household and makes up most of my camera roll.
If you’re here because you’re stuck in your own head, over your own excuses, or ready to take your performance to the level your potential deserves: Welcome. You’re in the right place.
Let’s get to work.